Men of all ages and marriage lengths responded. Some were married too young and are now single again in their 30s. Some had been cheated on by their wives and felt broken and jaded. Some had been married since the s, and things fell apart when the kids left for college. It was all smart, useful and heartbreaking enough to pay it forward. Maybe you were married one year; maybe you were married 15 years. I cannot emphasize this enough, and yet, it happens all the time.